“When you judge others, you don't define them, but yourself”

30 Judgement Quotes

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“It is not for me to judge another man’s life. I must judge, I must choose, I must spurn, purely for myself. For myself, alone.” 
― Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha



“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you

[Matthew 7:1-2]” 
― Anonymous, Holy Bible: King James Version

“When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself” 
― Earl Nightingale


“Even god doesn’t propose to judge a man till his last days, why should you and I?” 
― Dale Carnegie

“When we make judgements we’re inevitably acting on limited knowledge, isn’t it best to ask if we seek to understand, or simply let them be?” 


“The Cold Within”
Six humans trapped in happenstance
In dark and bitter cold, 
Each one possessed a stick of wood, 
Or so the story’s told.
The first woman held hers back
For of the faces around the fire,
She noticed one was black.
The next man looking across the way
Saw not one of his church,
And couldn’t bring himself to give
The fire his stick of birch.
The third one sat in tattered clothes
He gave his coat a hitch,
Why should his log be put to use,
To warm the idle rich?
The rich man just sat back and thought
Of the wealth he had in store,
And how to keep what he had earned,
From the lazy, shiftless poor.
The black man’s face bespoke revenge
As the fire passed from sight,
For all he saw in his stick of wood
Was a chance to spite the white.
The last man of this forlorn group
Did naught except for gain,
Giving only to those who gave,
Was how he played the game.
The logs held tight in death’s still hands
Was proof of human sin,
They didn’t die from the cold without,
They died from the cold within.” 
― James Patrick Kinney


“…people change, even good people, if they get the wrong thing in their head. And not everything is always what it looks like and sometimes just because one person looks weak, they might be very strong, and another person might look like a spooky freak but he might be one of the kindest people you’d ever meet. And I guess I learned that time is slippery…We have to enjoy every second, love with all our hearts, all we can, while we can.” 
― Lee Thompson


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When I am sharply judgmental of any other person, it’s because I sense or see reflected in them some aspect of myself that I don’t want to acknowledge.” 
― Gabor Maté, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction



“The poor girl ws keeping that student’s letter as a precious treasure, and had run to fetch it, her only treasure, because she did not want me to go away without knowing that she, too, was honestly and genuinely loved; that she, too, was addressed respectfully. No doubt that letter was destined to lie in her box and lead to nothing. But none the less, I am certain that she would keep it all her life as a precious treasure, as her pride and justification, and now at such a minute she had thought of that letter and brought it with naive pride to raise herself in my eyes that I might see, that I, too, might think well of her.” 
― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Notes from Underground, White Nights, The Dream of a Ridiculous Man, and Selections from The House of the Dead


“You have a perfect right to consign us all to hell, rector, but you must allow us the choice of how we get there.

Raspberry Jam” 
― Angus Wilson, The Pan Book of Horror Stories



“Dont act like you are walking around with a Tshirt that says “I give Up!” on the front and on the back saying “I never started trying!”


People can bring you down, situations happen, YOU can feel like Life is the shittiest thing to deal with. BLAH BLAH BLAH..
If you’re walking through Hell, keep going! Everyday there’s a new challenge. Face it! Deal with it! Move on! To every problem there is a solution or a way around it.. Stop being a sour mongral and think life owes you something..


No one will do anything for you these days. Start fighting. Get rid of ALL the shit people in your Life. Grow some balls of steel and work progressively through everything. Step by Step or what ever mad method you have to get you back in line again.
Who cares, if people don’t like you, BURN that mother of a bridge down. It was never meant to be.. Build New ones! Many roads to cross and new paths on life to Explore..


It starts with YOU.. And if people want to judge you, tell them to F/O and look in the mirror. Time for a new game.. It’s called “Take over the World” WHOOOP WHOOOP!!” 
― Timothy Padayachee



“A Man who has the confidence to not feel the need to defend his point of view and at the same time possess the openness to accept other’s point of view, without being judgemental, yet managing
to stay true to his convictions – Is the Man of Real Substance!” 
― Wordions

“Many will notice the change in your attitude,
and make judgements, call you names – arrogant,
Ill tempered. But only a select few will see beyond
and notice the hurt, pain, rejection that triggered 
the anger, and activated your defence 
in the form of changed attitude.
And of these few who notice, barely exceptional ones, will care enough to act and see their contribution to your pain – apologise or take corrective actions, to help your heart heal.

To find someone who understands your emotions so well and does not define you by your outbursts or your temper, but instead sees the factors that trigger those reactions in you, even when they are at the receiving end, is nothing less than a miracle.” 
― Drishti Bablani, Wordions


“I suddenly remembered that Murray Gell-Mann and I were supposed to give talks at that conference on the present situation of high-energy physics. My talk was set for the plenary session, so I asked the guide, “Sir, where would the talks for the plenary session of the conference be?”

“Back in that room that we just came through.”

“Oh!” I said in delight. “Then I’m gonna give a speech in that room!”

The guide looked down at my dirty pants and my sloppy shirt. I realized how dumb that remark must have sounded to him, but it was genuine surprise and delight on my part. 

We went along a little bit farther, and the guide said, “This is a lounge for the various delegates, where they often hold informal discussions.” They were some small, square windows in the doors to the lounge that you could look through, so people looked in. There were a few men sitting there talking. 

I looked through the windows and saw Igor Tamm, a physicist from Russia that I know. “Oh!” I said. “I know that guy!” and I started through the door.

The guide screamed, “No, no! Don’t go in there!” By this time he was sure he had a maniac on his hands, but he couldn’t chase me because he wasn’t allowed to go through the door himself!” 
― Richard Feynman


“It’s not your job to judge or to decide if someone deserves something. It’s your job to lift the fallen and comfort the broken.” 
― Karen Gibbs


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if you didn’t make negative judgements on everyone, what would change. Not alot. But you would see the world with new eyes, eyes that were clouded by a wall; a wall of your own making. Built up with negative judgements and ignorant commets, not spoken aloud. So end today with a positive thought. No matter what happen yesterday or last year, tomorrow’s a fresh start, don’t throw it away.” 
― Georgette Tange


“Never judge a person how he died, but how he lived.” 
― Rudolf Jerome Ragay


“She was lucky to be wanted not desired though, worse pain is the feeling of being unwanted in love.” 
― Pushpa Rana, Just the Way I Feel


“We are generally treated based on how much or little we have, earn, or know—or seem to have, earn, or know.” 
― Mokokoma Mokhonoana


“It’s futile to point the finger of condemnation and say, “Men… this” or “Women… that”. Truth is, we are all guilty and innocent of many of life’s trials.” 
― T.F. Hodge, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”


“Nothing is right or wrong. It’s all an interpretation of which lens we are looking through.” 
― Tarun Sharma

“Outer gavels can’t crush you when your inner judge is love.” 
― Curtis Tyrone Jones


“Mr Judge, Jury & Executioner of Micah Xavier Johnson‬ needs to go to jail as soon as possible – he is a danger to civilized society.” 
― Steven Magee


“If we love each other without creating a race war, people wouldn’t get hurt that much, and feelings too.” 
― Werley Nortreus, Best Quotes of Werley Nortreus


My life as a Caucasian Chinese


“When being extremely judgmental about something, we are likely to narrow our eyes.” 
― Merriam Webster


“That just goes to show, remarked Pearlie, that you must never judge a woman in a kimono or a bathing suit.” 
― Edna Ferber


“If our eyes could see everything, every man would see his own faults.” 
― Matshona Dhliwayo


“Let me say first of all that the grace of God is sufficient to any transgression, and that to judge is wrong, the origin and essence of much error and cruelty.” 
― Marilynne Robinson, Gilead


“Your HEART is your JUDGE, let your judge to take decisions.” 
― Rashid Jorvee



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